I am trying to care for a man that has been in my family for a long time. He is 90 years old with no Medicaid and I am now disabled and can not care for him like I used to. He has no immediate family to help care for him and I have tried to apply for Medicaid for him only to be told he doesn’t qualify. I am at my wits' end because he is experiencing dementia and it's hard for me to deal with. He gets social security and a very small pension but I was told it is not enough for a decent nursing home or home attendant. Can someone please help me and tell me what to do?