I came to Louisiana with my partner so he could be with terminal father. The father has long passed but partner wants to stay here with his family. I have never liked living here and now that I'm ill I want to move back to Illinois where I have family and a support system. We aren't married but leaving a sick partner seems wrong yet I have my own ill health and heart disease to care for. Since he has family here and I don't how do I move back home gracefully? I might add that our relationship has been bad the whole time as he has basically abandoned me for these 10 years and chosen family over me at every step.