My mom who is 86 still has her wits about her. However her body is in bad shape. We’re at the point where she needs 24 hr care, but refuses. She won’t eat without me, she won’t bathe without me, she hasn’t had a decent nights sleep in months. She’s not taking medication as prescribed. She’s claiming all her specialist are trying to kill her. She is in desperate need of wearing a hearing aide but won’t. She’s severely retaining fluids but won’t wear compression stockings. Constantly crying and complaining every single day to me about everything. I’m on the verge of a nervous breakdown.