Hello, my 94 year old mother suffers from Dementia, severe Bursitis, COPD and other ailments. Her doctor was reluctant to give her pain medication which she desperately needs to be able to walk, etc. Now her condition has worsened and she will sleep half the day away. By allowing her to sleep as much as she wants, I find myself cooking dinner at 9pm at times. She states that she hurts all over and is too cold to get up. I have to force her to get up most days. Should I let her sleep or wake her earlier to give structure to meal times etc. She just picks at her food when I do cook so at times rather than feel guilty, I will let her sleep which also causes guilt on my part.. Thank you in advance for your thoughts.