My mom lives in my home on hospice—a cancer patient. My older brother and sister resent me for being given POA, Medical POA and will executor. There is good reason for it. My sister has been a substance abuser and incarcerated twice. My brother has never cared much for my mom and once borrowed a large sum of money from her and has never paid it back. She has said over and over that I’m the only one she trusts. To make matters worse, now she really needs my protection because she’s developed dementia-like symptoms from ammonia going to her brain. Here’s what she does: she tells my sister that she can borrow money from her savings when she needs it. Then my mom tells me not to tell anyone any details about her money. My sister comes to me saying that mom told her she can borrow money and for me to write her a check. I question her about it, then she and my brother talk and hold me under suspicion about keeping my mom's money from them. I’m about ready to revoke all my legal powers and to move my mom into a nursing home. I’m losing my mind. My family is drama-ridden and toxic, and my mom is putting her own privacy and finances at risk. I’m the POA, but my hands are tied. At this point, I’m even inclined to walk away from my own inheritance. I’m a spiritual person who realizes that no amount of money is worth the loss of my serenity. Anyone have wisdom for me?