My ex has no relatives or anyone else where he can live or be taken care of. The house is in both our names and takes both our incomes. He was an unaffectionate narcissist while we were married, and now thinks I should still do all of the cooking and cleaning while he just sits in his lawn chair all day. I am resentful and angry and it comes out in my actions and words. Then I feel bad because I am a very kind and caring woman.