I should know. I live with him. It's been 2 years. He can't do the work that he did the last 20 yrs., and now he can't work under someone like he has done the last 2 yrs. He took himself to his PCP to begin with two yrs ago because he knew that he couldn't figure numbers, etc. on the job. We have really gotten the run-around as far as diagnosis from two major universities in the our area. My family and his family and our two adult girls waffle between knowing something is wrong with him, and talking like he is OK. He is not OK. I am struggling with all this. We have taken a 3 month break from Drs and tests, etc. but he wants to start a new work project but he may not be able to do. I told him that to be able to invest any of my money, he would have to start over with the testing which is not going over well.....and I don't blame him but I am trying to look out for our financial future. Any advice?