Our aunt has advanced dementia. She is 97 still in her home. We have care workers there from 9 am til 10 pm 7 days a week. My cousin and I spend so much time, calling careworkers, paying bills. Paying the care workers, getting her out so we can have a housekeeper to clean her house. So much legwork and time out of our everyday lives. Can we get an allowance for all this? Our families are complaining all we do is spend time making sure she’s cared for and we get nothing! Any thoughts?