My mom is living in Florida. There is no one there to assist her. She came up after the hurricane at the urging of her family. A few days after she arrived I took her to the hospital with an infection. She stayed a few days and came out only to return two days later for the same thing. We insisted on a rehab since she didn't seem to be able to walk very well. When she got out of the rehab, I took her into my home. My husband and I, along with mom have various routines that will not work together. She stayed over a month and we sent her to my sister in Minnesota. During her time here we convinced her that it would be good for her to sell her condo, get other insurance and move to NJ. She agreed. But she does this normally to patronize us. She is now with my sister a former nurse - where my mom can be looked after. She is now insisting on going back to Florida and staying until after winter. This is what she normally does. She needs assistance, but she doesn't believe so. All the work that my husband and I have done so far seems to be worthless since she now wants to technically move back to Florida and stay. I have started to look into independent and assisted living facilities that are a lot of money. Not sure what to do anymore. My family is concerned about her safety. Mom thinks she is ok. But I know differently. She has a hard time seeing, hearing and that is not the real challenges of her medical problems. What can I do? I have power of attorney, but I probably need to get a guardianship of her. I don't think they will grant it due to the fact that she is very much with it. Can you direct me? Thank you.