My mother is 99 and lives in a NH. She fell in October, 2016, broke her hip, had surgery, went to rehab and never returned home. She suffers from slight vascular dementia, needs help walking and is slightly incontinent. She has recently told me, she's "done" and I better start watching for "rents" because she's moving at the end of the month. She really believes she can do everything as before and there is no reason to live in a NH. When she talks like this, I start to doubt myself and the decision I have made for her to live in a NH. I've tried to tell her she lives there now and sometimes she accepts it, but not others. This is very difficult. Should she be allowed to live independently again? She no longer has any money and is on Medicaid so most AL facilities in our area wouldn't even take her.