I was taking my mother to visit her sister ( she's 94) who happens to have Alzheimers. The trips were starting to drain me physically and mentally as well. I have my own disabilities, in fact I may have suffered another heart attack just recently, these trips were just becoming too much for me to handle. My aunt is in
excellent physical condition, in fact, her cardiac function is probably better than mine. I don't think I'm being selfish, I just want to live a little while longer, it that's possible.