First off let me add I'm not a caretaker I help out because I live with her and no other sibling will deal with my mother who seems to be a narcissistic being and could possibly have memory loss or dementia? Don't know because her doctor seems not to care as well as my mom. Well my mom is 73 years old has diabetes water in the lungs plus heart problems as well as mental issues. Refuses to walk which enabled her walking ability so now she uses a scooter everywhere or a wheelchair. She refuses to take a shower or wash or cook for herself. Grant you it's hard for her but mom is capable of doing it. She has been lazy her whole life and had her kids doing serving her as servants my father had to have two jobs because she was lazy plus she verbally abused and physically abused her kids so their is a lot of resentment. How do I deal with a person who says I deserved to be molested as a child and how I needed to be hit? Even to this day I can't do anything right , she complains about the way I cook, clean talk everything plus she has stated how she is going to get me into trouble by telling the doctor I'm mean to her ?? Won't lie i have yelled at her but she mainly makes me cry. Today she insisted on going to go get a pie and it was late . I told her not to because she was eating to much junk food as it is but she went anyways and then I got a call from her that she fell and the ambulance would take her to the hospital. My fear is she out to get me.