So this is what is happening to my mom. She had a UTI - then fell twice - in hospital - checked for brain bleed - none - and has heart disease - to make a long story short she is in the rehab and that's how she's been for about 2 or 3 weeks. I saw her once in the hospital and she was fine and when she started to get confused the nurses and doctors came in so I decided that was a good time to leave. It's almost impossible to speak to her by phone at the rehab so I have only gotten reports from nurses and caregivers. Here is my question. Up until the fall my mom was on the ball. There was no confusion. I am scared to see her like this but of course I need to go. When someone goes in and out - when they are not confused... can you mention to them that they have been getting confused? Can you talk to them truthfully about what's happening? I don't really know how to act when she isn't confused. It makes me so worried and sad.