My mother-in-law is 80, with Parkinson's and dementia. She wants to do things as she wants, which is understandable. She doesn't understand that she needs help but not always on her schedule. My husband and I live in her house with her stuff. My husband got in a car wreck and hurt his arm and back. He shouldn't help her. I have fibromyalgia and had triple bypass heart surgery a few months ago. I can do most things on my time. My question is....if she needs help, should she wait until I can do it or since it is her stuff let her do it?