I know when my husband saw how bad his dad was, he said did we mess up by not having children? Who is going to help us when we get old? It was a rude awakening for him when his mom was dying, his brothers and him didn’t watch her die, and seeing how expensive it is for care it’s even got us thinking about where we are going to retire. See he has to retire at 53-55, he will get a part time job he is just a deputy sheriff and I have been on disability. My parents are leaving us a house out in the country, but there is so much to think about. How are you guys preparing for care as we age?