In 2012 I moved into mom's house temporarily. Mom is now 92 and I am 66 and working full time. Mom can still take care of her ADL's and is in good condition with her check ups. Her mobility is unsteady but she gets by with cane/ walker. I of course shop, cook, serve, dog walk, appointment/ transport, occasional mid night hospital visits and basically am always at her beckoned call. I have a sibling an hour away who comes irregularly about 4 hours a week. I have a grandchild due this summer and with current public health issues, I would love to move out (of state) to care for the baby in order to avoid a germ infested daycare. I would of course set up a cna to visit but mom is against anyone but me coming to assist. Also not sure if it is a good idea for mom to solo during the night even though she has a life alert. Other family members and friends are the only ones who see that I make both of their life styles possible. How would I live with guilt the rest of my life? I sure don't want to be selfish.