I took my mom, who is in ALMC, to see my dad, who is in a SNF. He said he wants to come home. I know physically he isn’t able to come home. He has Parkinson’s and is on hospice. He is barely able to even stay up in the wheelchair very long until he’s ready to go back to bed. I asked him how could we manage getting him up, changing his diapers, giving him sponge baths, etc. and he said I’ll take care of that. I can get the nurse who used to come to come again. That is exactly why he had to go into a nursing facility because my mom wouldn’t let anyone help him. All the above, as well as we’re not financially able to pay for 24/7 nursing care. My heart is breaking and am so tempted to bring him home regardless. How do I cope with the guilt?