He listens to nothing I say. I am very afraid of the future. He is frustrated because he is confused and yet will not believe me when I to explain things to him.. He just tells me everything is my fault. He used to be an engineer and now he can't figure anything out. I am trying to keep everything together and believe I could but I have no leverage with him and he blocks most of my efforts. I don't know what is going to happen to us.