My husband has lewy body dementia & parkinson's disease. He has been incontinent (urine) for almost a year now. The last month or so he doesn't realize he has to have a BM until it starts to happen so it has been half in the depends and half in the toilet. Also, he needs me to clean him afterwards. I did see that there are adult diapers for the pool/swimming so I can handle that part. I'm most concerned if he has to go while in the plane or the airport.