Mom passed on March 2017, as you might know from my posts. So I am feeling much much better. But every now and then I remember things from my past, my growing up years, etc. Unfortunately I had an abusive childhood and my parents were never there for me growing up as far as emotional support. So I was angry at my mom for never having stood up to my father (deceased when I was 21) for the things he did and said to me. She had a nervous breakdown when I was young and it took decades for her to get just a little better. So I realize why she wasnt able to stand up for me. But I suppressed those feelings of anger I had toward her, and him. And I realized that fact after my moms passing. So now I regret being angry with her (and never being really aware of that fact and why) all these years and never discussing it with her, as I wasn't really aware of it. So how does one handle these regrets after the passing of a loved one? Thanks.