I just became my dad's conservator. My mother is NOT happy about this. She is a narcissist who has controlled him for over 40 years. She is beside herself and is making every step of this initial process virtually impossible, taking his mail, taking his money, lying to him, turning him against me, etc. This is not good for my father or for myself emotionally. He's a victim of her emotional abuse as are my siblings and I. I want to take care of my father but, how can I go about this if he is tied to her hip and she is mentally ill but he still listens to her?