Hello all, I'm a single child since my brother passed away 10 years ago, I'm now in my mid 40s and I'm married with 2 beautiful kids, my mom is 70 and my dad is 73 and both of them are staying alone and I'm staying with my wife and kids in a separate house. Since my brother passed away 10 years ago, I have come to realized that I'm the only child now and I have to be prepared to be the caregiver to my aging parents and since last year I have been going into depression and anxiety all the time as I cannot stop thinking about the problems, and so called nightmares that I have to face in the event their health deteriorates further. My mom in her 70's now is diagnosed with 1st stage Parkinson's and mobility is becoming an issue as she cannot walk by herself without someone to hold her arms and she can fall and unbalanced herself anytime, my dad still is able to walk but in a slow pace due to occasional leg pains and such, but he is still good and he still drives around, for the past 3 years my dad has been bathing my mom as she cannot be left alone in the bath room fearing of fall as she has fell many times. I have worries left and right coming and not a single day pass that I don't think of them, I'm fighting my anxiety and depression now and they don't know what I'm going through and it is only occasionally they see that I'm not happy and irritated, I'm also working to ensure my family gets food on the table and I'm trying hard to juggle what I'm thinking and such. My close uncle has been trying to tell me to get your mind in control and stop thinking about them as this worry of yours is no help and you cannot do anything. I'm also getting phobia over their phone calls especially at night as there are few instances that my mom fell at night when going to the bathroom and my dad will ring me up to rush to their place to help her get back up as my dad isn't that strong to help her up. I'm so worried all the time and cannot stop thinking about them and I always have this bleak future of them and it worries me that when the time comes how would I take care of them? What do I do? What happens if my dad is hospitalized and how would I go about taking care of my mom and my dad? How do I handle my work, my own family and them?