My husband got a 20,000 dollar pay cut at work he found a new wonderful job an hour north of where we currently live. We live in Colorado and the weather can be harsh making travel very dangerous from Oct. To June sometimes. We want to get as close to his new work as possible. My mother is freaking out as I'm her taxi to all her medical appts. Shopping etc.
She says things to me like "Your Killing Me," crying and going on and on. She is extremly self centered. She is not concered about our financial needs or my husbands commute. She is so verbally abusive. I know she is scared that I won't be 8 houses down from her to be at her disposal when ever she wants.
My husband and I have told her to come with us. She is stubborn!!! She could live with us or we could find her a home of her own. She says no she's not moving . How do my husband and I deal with this???
I have a brother 30 minutes from us but he's stoned all the time and can't be of any help with her. I have 2 sisters and another brother in another state who are not going to move her to drive her around.
Mom says you kids were my whole life and I gave you everything I had and now I'm going to be alone.