She is refusing to wash, I don't know if it is because she get scared or if she just simply doesn't want to.
Either way she smells and I don't want her to get an infection, i am lucky if i can get her to change her clothes more than once a week. When we have visitors I hand her the wet wipes and she will rub her face.
Does anyone have any suggestions to coax her into the shower or any alternatives?
She can get violent sometimes too. Its my dad that is the main carer and i really do feel for him.