My mother is a very difficult person to get along with. We have never had a good mother/daughter relationship. Plus she is an alcoholic. She is living with me and we are both miserable. We fight all the time and I am getting very resentful of her. I feel tied down, trapped and hopeless. I want her to go to nursing home but she refuses. She is wheeĺchair bound and incontinent. She refuses to bathe and take her meds. All she wants to do is drink. She has been difficult my whole life and I'm over her. If it comes to it, can I legally make her go? I am her medical POA.