I presently live with my aging parents, along with my husband and young son. My parents are slipping mentally, but I'm not sure if it's age or something more. Last night, my dad yelled at me for getting off work late, for my husband working late, and for our son being cranky. I hadn't even gotten my shoes off (required in the house) before I was thoroughly cussed out. My parents presently babysit part time for us, but I think that's going to be changing really soon - as is our living arrangements if I can get my in-laws to agree. Anyway, I'm the only child and I don't have power of attorney (my parents have refused to give me that). Is there any way I can talk to their doctors, particularly my dad's, to see about a mental evaluation? My dad is supposed to be on oxygen 24/7, but refuses and mostly uses it at night for his sleep apnea. My dad is normally grumpy, but last night he was significantly more aggressive than usual. Today and tomorrow our son is at my in-laws house, and I'm working on getting other arrangements made for the 3 of us.