My mother died a month ago. My dad is 88. We live in the same town 10 minutes away from one another. He has his own home. He doesn’t want to be in an empty house at night and doesn’t want to wake up alone. He is physically and mentally capable of living alone. He asked if he could stay for a couple of week’s at my house in the evenings. He goes home during the day and comes back in the late afternoons. He stays with us all weekend 24/7. He has been sweet but with this coming and going he forgets his meds and other things. My husband and I have no time alone. How do I set boundaries? I’m am looking for kind words to tell him to try to stay by himself. Is it time or should I give him more time? My fear is he is getting too accustomed to this arrangement. He is wanting to take time to make a decision about going to an independent living place where he would be around people. He would still have late evenings and early mornings alone.