We live in WV. Nursing Home Doctor and Social Worker have designated my 86 yo mother incompetent to make medical decisions for herself. She fell in Dec. was in hospital 2 weeks, then sisters with POA moved her to a rehab nursing home. Now she is much improved but sisters will not allow her to return home based on declaration of WV doctor of NH. Mom continues to improve but the rehab has her only in remedial care because of 2 mini strokes she has had since being there in that smelly place. I moved back here to care for her because the others were tired of caring for her, her medical doctor advised us after her last major stroke that she could not live alone any longer because of her anxiety. I lived in NC at the time. Now I'm here, do all her laundry (scabies outbreak in NH) take her meals, snacks, food on nights that she won't eat chicken/fish (served 4 or more times a week) take her all her personal care needs, shampoo, body wash, lotions, toothpaste, denture cleaner, etc. The sisters visit an hour or so that it.