Moved my parents into assisted living because frankly I couldn’t handle doing it all myself. My dad still has sharp mind but requires a walker to get around. My mom suffered a stroke a year and a half ago and it affected her short term memory. They have been in AL for almost a month and mom asks every night to my dad when are we going home? He tells her this is our home but she still thinks they are in a hotel. She stays in bed most of the time or sleeping in her recliner. If I go over she will get up but my dad or the nurse don’t seem to have any luck. I think she has some dementia as well. I thought this would be the best thing for her because she did this where she lived before also in bed most of the time. Sometimes she says she just wants to die which breaks my heart. This is not my mom anymore. I feel bad for my dad as it’s depressing him. My mom is also diabetic and I thought if they got in to AL it would be better since she has someone to give her meds and insulin but that’s not the case. Her sugars are all over the place! She rarely eats. I’m at a loss on what to do. I don’t want to have to go over every day just to get her up but I feel guilty and bad if I don’t. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated!