My Dad is 92 and has diabetes, a pacemaker, a catheter, & he's on hospice. He lives at my sister's house & I've been trying to go down every week or so to help. They are 6 hours away. Dad is strong & moves constantly so it's difficult to keep bedding underneath him - especially the one we use to move or straighten him up to eat. Also, he will not keep any clothing on - it seems to irritate his skin (at least in his mind). We've tried putting duct tape on his diaper to keep him from pulling it off, but some how he still manages to slip it off. Caregivers & nurses want him medicated, but he's not in pain & is his old lovable self most of the time. The past 2 weekends he has removed all the linens & then had a BM. My sister & I are not strong enough to turn him, but we do our best. We cannot afford to hire weekend caregivers. Any ideas??? we are exhausted.