Ok. So I have my 73 yo mom with me, she has been with me for 20+ years now but her health continues to decline. I should also note that I also am in terrible health. Anyway, my problem is that with what my mom gets from SSI we are barely holding on financially. My oldest sister is doing very well (well is what I consider has her own business, never gets down to $10 for the week & goes on multiple vacations). I on the other hand haven't gone anywhere in years and it's because between taking care of my mom financially I can't afford it and also no one will come stay for any length of time. Anyway I don't really care about a vacation, it would be nice but really I just don't want to worry about my utilities getting turned off. Last time I asked for help I was given a very small amount & then told it's not her responsibility to help. My question is why is it all mine? Am I in the wrong for asking? I'm so stressed I don't sleep, every day gets worse..