My dad passed away 2 years ago, mom moved in with me and my husband. She does not drive nor does she want to. She is an introvert and does not like to socialize. She is diabetic (#2) and suffers from high BP which she is taking medicine for. She is lazy and does not want to do anything on a physical level to better herself. Now she is having issues with blood circulation in her legs. She likes to sit around on her computer or phone all day and/or watch TV till 3:00 AM. She is not taking good care of herself. I don't require anything of her other then taking care of herself. She is a great cook so she cooks dinner 2-3 times a week and that's all. She is negative about everything and everyone including my brother and sister. I got so tired of her negative outlook on everything that I stopped having conversations with her because they are not worth anything to me. She just does not have anything nice to say about anyone. She is the happiest if you just leave her alone with her messed up lifestyle but NOT IN MY HOUSE. My dad fought with her for years on the same issues and she never wants to change. She is stubborn and stuck in her ways. She does not want to change and I can't see her health decline in my watch. I just got done taking care of my father two years ago and it was exhausting as he lost his battle with liver cancer at a young age of 67. Now, I am expecting my first child in July so I am done. I have tried to do everything and anything to help her change but nothing works for more then a week to 10 days. Now, I would like her to move in with my brother to elevate all that stress from my house. I got 7 weeks to go and I need to focus on me with my husband. Am I being selfish? I don't know what to do with her. HELP!