One of my parents (not bio) was being cared for by another family member; and it was mentioned that family member had medical POA; said parent has passed and family member has not even let me help with service arrangements, has cut my adult children and myself out of any process of anything. Parent decided to stop any medical and passed a days later; I wasn't told of the decisions and even the death notification was delayed by hours. I am unsure of what to do or where to start. My children and I are being treated as though we are "chasing the Will" which is not the case at all! I am just beside myself!