I have a need to document things since my family is very combative. However one sibling will not email, they will read my emails, and then call me up (and talk for an hour about other things than what was needed to discuss).
This sibling says I shouldn't be using email at all with family, because for important discussions they should all be in person (or over phone).
But it takes me longer to think while in a discussion, so for me it works best to think about things, then write, and also it helps to "cool down" so I don't say something I regret. I really prefer email.
How do I maintain contact with this sibling, when they only want phone calls, and I only want emails?
Also I feel it's important to document what is said, in case there is any "he said she said" misunderstandings down the road.