Dad is 92 and has bone cancer with a broke hip them vertebrae not too long ago. He also wears catheter. He also suffers from gait apnea which means he must always be in his electric wheel chair when he's not in bed. Basically he now can't do anything on his own. He needs full time care. My 82 yr old mom is exhausted and can't help him anymore. it's too much for her. After his last accident at home (he fell and needed to be rushed to emergency) the family agreed to place him in long term care facility. He agreed too but is now not happy about it and wants to come home. We just want to get him to focus on having the right help and not feeling that we 're abandoning him. Which we're not but I can appreciate how vulnerable he might be feeling. Just want to know how to reassure him so he is not angry with us or sad.