so my mom, dad and i live with my 30 yo brother. he only pays the rent of his house, he has a wife and two kids. my mom is the main caregiver for my father and for her, her family has always been first. i also help my mother ALOT because no one else does. recently STUPID family problems mosly because of my brothers wife. there have been discussions. my brother told my other brothher the ssupposely " bad brother" that he cant come to visit his mother. he needs to take us out to dinner in order to see us. is that legal or something. again, my mother is the one who is taking care of my 76 yo dad, she doesnt get paid and never gets help from any other of my brothers and half brothers. she only gets help from the "bad brrother". i dont think this is about mom. i think this is mostly about my brothers haterness, because he doesnt even care if mom is sick or not. so why cant she see her son????? sorry if its too long and misspelled.