You have not heard from me for a while. I do read posts most days.
My Father has been in care since Oct 2017. He was nasty to me and blamed me for puting him there.
At home he refused help of any description. It was his way or none. He was not washing and refused help to do so from carers. Not eating, not changing clothes. Urinating on floor and in basin beside bed. Just lay in bed and done number 2s. I am only child and he thought he could bully me into doing what he wanted. He kicked up a fuss about being in care but about 3 months ago it calmed down. However twice have went in to torrent of abuse and swearing. He wants out again. I am going to have a break for a week before I show face again. I can cope when he tells lies. Just ignore it but really can't stand abuse and that's what it is. How do I deal with it? Can't go through this again. Doctor has seen him and said no mental health issues but loss of capacity. He's almost 93. Any advice greatly appreciated.