After a wonderful 26-year career in journalism, I was laid off in October. Just weeks later, my 82 yo mother-in-law moved in with us. I am now her primary caregiver. And it's hard. She is hard. Two of her sons refuse to even come visit her. She can be mean, so can I. I really need a support group of some kind, to get out of here once in a while. Husband is very supportive, but doesn't get it.