As I am the one who has the issues, but my mother in law's dementia is increasing. Mother in law is 89, had numerous TIA's over the years, a stroke last spring, a minor heart attack in November which brought her from 30% heart functionality, to now 20% heart functionality. She lives with us, my husband is in the Navy and travels a lot. My sister in laws are not local and are not in a position to care for her. No one wants my mother in law in a home. We watched my father in law in one of those places and it was devastating.