I can afford outside help. She has demetia, is 92, takes no medication, is physically healthy, very cooperative and pleasant to be around. She is incontinent. The home she is in is better than most, but her care is just not the best. I am widowed and have room for her. I work from my home and sporatically outside the home, but she has enough income to pay for care when I cannot be here or if I want to go out. I am a very capable person and I have a way with her......I am moved by spirit to make her last years happier.