My neighbor's husband is an alcoholic and she is now noticing that he can no longer care for himself, such as go to the bathroom by himself or walk or bathe himself. He recently fell after trying to go to the bathroom by himself and had crapped everywhere. His wife has health problems of her own and not enough strength to lift his dead weight so after some time of him being on the floor he was able to use his walker to get up off the floor and he told his wife to call an ambulance, which she did, but the hospital is saying that he is alright to go home. And he is telling his wife that she made him go to the hospital and that if she doesn't come get him he will call a cab. I am pretty sure that is the alcohol talking since he couldn't have any while he was in the hospital. She will not be able to care for him when he does come home and is in tears not knowing what to do to get him the help she needs. Please let me know what steps she can take to get him into an Adult care facility.