My husband has gotten a much needed new job an hour away and my mom will be staying in her apt here. She manages well with social services overseeing her and several helpers, I think she will be alright, unless she falls.... She doesn't let me help her with meds, money, or anything important, and I'm only seeing her or driving her places once a week now; she gets other people and pays them something. I feel badly about leaving her, but do not want to manage her (impossible - she has never let me, and we tried living together, the three of us - ugh), so her doctor and social services can help if she falls (God forbid!) or something; I would not be able to come as I do not drive in winter. Am I missing anything? My brother has never helped, except he sent money now and then, and he lives a long way away. With no relative or POA to help, what happens?