I stepped out of the room with the doctor to tell him my dad was diagnosed with dementia by a neurologist because he apparently didn’t read the letter I sent him. He told me I can go to social security office and apply for long term care so he can have a caregiver. I asked him what about him harassing my husband and accusing him of stealing? He said the caregiver can give him anxiety pills. So then we go back into the room and he gives him a memory test and he passes! He did so well. The doctor is probably thinking I’m the crazy one 😕. But I know it’s not just me. My husband definitely sees it too. I’m guessing he can never go into a care home if he refuses to go and he passes memory tests? Even though half the time he is accusing my husband of stealing, and he can’t reason well on anything. He forgets to take his pills, he forgets how long food has been in the fridge. I completely forgot to mention to the doctor that he’s still driving. But now that he passes the memory test maybe the doctor is not so concerned with his driving. Sure sometimes he drives ok, but half the time he drives he runs through red lights or goes 85 in a 55. I’m so upset. I already wrote to motor vehicle and they did nothing. I tried to take his keys, but he has spares. I am way to sick to deal with this and my seizures, but I know it’s my fault I’m the one who wanted him to live in our guest home. Of course I didn’t have seizures then, but I really had no idea what I was getting into.