What baggages do we need to throw away? How do we move on? As caregivers overwhelmed with so many issues, finances drained, legal battles, aches and pains, marital problems growing because you're torn on all sides, elderly parents/husbands/wives lingering on uselessly and taking so much of your time, emotions, energy and money resources, etc etc I'd like to know how we will face 2011. I asked earlier for your ideas how I can possibly shorten my mom's life. Don't give me Fear Obligation Guilt reasons I have enough of this crap! Remember I've been taking care of a useless irresponsible mom for 19 years I got more experience than most nursing caregivers in my country but I am so drained the last thing i need to hear is FOG sermon. Anyway back to my question, I'd like to hear your thoughts and ideas how to go about with 2011. What baggages we need to throw away? How do we move on?