I feel I was tricked into giving up my life by family members and nurses constantly calling and making me feel like mom was dying. So I made the mistake of giving up my career and my life to move back home to take care of her. But she didn't die, instead she has improved to the point where she could go on to be 100 or more and now I'm stuck. I cannot work because I cant leave her alone. I have no life at all because I cannot even go anywhere for any length of time because she might try to cook or something. She has almost burned the house down three times. She's also nuts, she's 89 and has all these strange ideas and she has to complain about everything. I feel like I'm in the movie throw mama from the train. I don't know what to do now. My life is over because of her.