My parents are at the point they can't take care of themselves or to keep house. Their house is falling apart. My mother is in rehab for 2 weeks or more to build her strength in her legs. Dad is in another facility and will be discharged to go home or back to the facility he was transferred from. He has 10 more days that Medicare will cover at 100%. Dad has dementia and can not live alone. We work 40hour week. Instead of me keep juggling job, their house, and seeing mom. I feel it would be easier to have them at my house and have homecare come twice a week. I told my spouse that we could count them as our dependents and they could pay for the utilities and groceries. I helped my husband with his parents and did most of the clean up on their house to sell when they passed away. I feel he has put me in a position to choose him or my parents. But I pay half of the mortgage on our home. If I have to leave in order to take care of my parents I will stop contributing that. My parents can't afford a $5000 a month assisted living and can't qualify for Medicaid because they have more than $2000 saved up. I don't know what to do. I have been dealing with this for 4 months now and about to explode because I can't get anything marked off the list. Their house has to be sold as is. And I waiting on a lawyer to get POA. My parents have done nothing to prepare for this. I tried to get them to move out of that house for years. They just dropped their problems in mine and my younger brother's lap. Sell their house. the car, get rid of their dogs, and do something with all the old crap in their house.