Should I just see it as just compensation for my sister's efforts? After my father's death we have all become estranged, my mother might have even disinherited me. I have tried to communicate with my sister but she's even more self-righteous than me! My father asked me to help him with his healthcare and we had a loving, caring relationship. If I out-live my parents, whose estate is worth 100's of thousands at this time, and my mother's care leaves anything left, and my sister doesn't spend it all, he wouldn't want me left with nothing while my sister lives off what he worked so hard to provide my mother and us.