I find myself so depressed because I cannot make my 68 year old Mom happy. She moved in with my husband and I in April. We have spent the last 8 months doing so much for her, and yet, sometimes, she is so unthankful. She had previously been in a nursing home due to malnutrition brought on by alcohol dementia. She was dying. She is now healthy as a horse but still has forgetful moments, does the exact thing we ask her not to do, complains we don't do anything with her, even though she is invited to attend gatherings and such with us and ALWAYS says no. She's making us feel bad but we do everything in our power to make her happy. When I discuss it with her, she says she's been through a lot since my Dad passed (last November) but fails to understand, we've been through more! We had to clean out their home and get all their belongings stored and what not! It was a nightmare. Now she constantly wants us to run to storage looking for stuff for her. Its just little things like that, but it's affecting me terribly. I find myself snappy and moody all the time! Now she is saying she wants to get her own place so she doesn't have to depend on anyone else. Well, that means, driving (which she didn't like doing before) and guaranteed visits to bars and liquor stores. I just feel completely overwhelmed! Oh, and I have zero help from other family members. Its just my husband and I! I guess my question is, how do I find myself again?????