The police won't do anything about it and I am at the point where I do not know what to do anymore. I know my description of this whole entire situation will be scattered.
Anyway, this neighbor who is in his mid-forties is using, abusing and taking advantage of my 70 year old mother. He is sexually and verbally abusive, he’s manipulative, he asks my mother for money, he uses taunts, threats and humiliation, and he’s aggressive and persistent to get his way. When I say he's manipulative, he uses the “I love you, baby” and he tells her sob stories in order to get what he wants from her. And, of course, my mother believes all his ridiculous crocodile-tears stories. He has other girlfriends around his own age that he goes out with when he’s not abusing my mother. He often avoids and ignores my mother for weeks at a time, and then that’s when my mother tells me of the abusive things he does to her. Several times I have seen him making out with women in his driveway. He refuses to wear condoms with my mother. Whenever he needs something from my mother (be it money or somebody to abuse), he’ll come over and put on his predator charms, and then my mother will believe all his stories and lies, next she’ll forgive him, and last she’ll give him whatever he wants.
When I was at my mother’s, he barged in her home and he started grabbing, groping and kissing on her in front of me. I lost my cool and I told him to get the F out of my mother’s home and to leave her alone. Later that night, he called her incessantly as he relentlessly kept demanding her to go over to his home which she ended up doing. I tried stopping her from going over there, but she said, “It’s best I do what he tells me.”
I have spoken with the landlord, the police, and the Department on Aging, they are of no help. The landlord doesn’t care. The police and the Department on Aging won’t do anything because as they have told me numerous times that I can’t file a complaint for another person - they have to hear it from my mother. And, when they had asked my mother about the things I’ve reported, she told them that those things have never happened.
What kind of hold does that man have on my mother?