My mother is in mid stage Alzheimer's. She is also a narcissist. I just want to drive over a cliff. She uses neighbors, she tells them I am mean to her and of coarse the gossip around the neighborhood goes into overdrive and I am the bad ass abusing my mother. She knows exactly what she's doing, her history proves this. She is also confused, forgetful and secretive. Together with the Narcicissim it works against me. I've already had to deal with the cops on my doorstep because of a concerned neighbor. She has lucid days and days where she is on another planet. Either way it seems her narcicisstic behavior is getting more intense because of the Alzheimer's. Any advice out there? Anyone dealing with this horrible combination? HELP!!